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555. Opinions and Self-Aware Assessments

“Opinions are always ego and are never aware of what is life really opinions can only exist in the mirror as ego” – Bernard Poolman Here I’m having a look at how I become complicit to building the ego in our minds by giving worth, value and ‘the time of day’ to opinions an... —

Day 556: Let’s Talk About Me

Making a good impression around those you’ve just met is one thing, but when making a good impression is abided with “Let’s talk about me”, changes the dynamics of things, being that I’m-pressing myself to come up with a character to make myself look good in front of others, w... —

Do It For Yourself - Decade With Desteni

Being my own starting point and stopping patterns of seeking recognition, validation and appreciation from others - and instead live that as self-expression 535. Self-Enjoyment and Expression —

554. Reverse Engineering Inner Conflict

Or how to walk through a point of anger or blame and see through it towards self-responsibility in one’s life creation As I was organizing some files and doing a general cleanup in my computer, I saw some documents that I had written out over a year and a half ago where, ther... —

Day 386: HEa(LL)th and Investigating the Limitations of Defining Self According to Body Image

Body image, we give it so much value, even though it is not that important, because at the end of the day how much of our self-experience is dependent upon what we look like? Not much. In-fact, because we obsess about our body image, we miss the qualities/characteristics that ... —

Day 555: The Title Eludes Me (Self-Forgiveness)

This is a continuation from the previous post, where I’ll open up more Self-Forgiveness on these point; I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to have separated myself from other in the sense of looking down on them, disassociating myself from them, no longer... —

From Arrogance to Humbleness - Decade With Desteni

Sharing about the initial stages of walking the Desteni process and what I've realized about my stance towards people/the world back then and how it is now Check out: Desteni Radio #24 - Desteni as Dogma —

553. Impulsiveness and Slowing Down

Here I’ll share a bit further on a vlog I recorded about a situation that I created and participated on, and share more on how when we are caught up in an experience that is perceived as ‘positive’ and getting excited about something, that is where I see I can also easily lose... —

Day 385: Structuring Life, What Have I Realized Thus Far?

I have now for a while been practicing living the word STRUCTURE. Thus far I have come to see, realize and understand a couple of things in relation to living this word. Firstly, in order to be able to live structure it is important to follow through on my plans – because stru... —

Day 554: The Title Eludes Me (Why Me First)

Just because someone continue to do what you no longer do, doesn’t give you the right to look down on them, shun them or not interact with them, in any social setting, gathering or form of party etc. A lot of times we find ourselves not wanting to associate with people for the... —

Blinded By Self Interest & Owning the Consequences

A cautionary tale of only considering one's self-interest and missing out others in the equation to create what's best for all If you're up for learning how to start supporting yourself, sign up to Desteni's Free Course: Thanks to... —

552. Who Am I as a Savior?

There’s been a pattern I’ve lived within my relationships of wanting to save the other person, in a way deliberately selecting a particular partner that I can see as a ‘rough stone’ that I can carve and sculpt for them to become the ‘better person’ I believe they can be. Now i... —

Trying to Save or Change your Partner? - Relationship Success Support

Have you ever been in a relationship where you experienced the need to change or save your partner? Should we really accept and love our partner for who they are or is it okay to want to see change? If so, when and how? If you can relate to these questions, join us for a Live ... —

Day 553: The Start Never Stops

How many times have we carried our troubles over into the next day, just to miss out on what the New day has to offer, where we wake up with a congested head full of thought from the previous day, then end up re-hashing/replaying/re-living the same patterns over again, that op... —

551. Walking Through What Wasn’t Done in the Past

Something I got to see and realize today is how I have tended to look at the past and what ‘I didn’t get to do’ within a particular experience of regret or pondering ‘what could have been,’ which created certain outflows that I had deemed to be ‘manifested consequences’ consid... —

Stopping Self Sentencing - Decade With Desteni

Changing the relationship to my past and giving myself a second chance to actually live for the first time ever within walking this process with Desteni Structural Resonance Alignment Research Desteni Marlen What is Leaders... —

550. From Expectations to Self-Grounding

Throughout this process I’ve learned how creating expectations can be a secure trip to get disappointed most of the times, considering how in our minds we tend to ‘elevate’ ourselves in creating these ideals as in ‘perfect or idyllic situations’ about an event or situation tha... —

Day 321 – From awkwardness to self-trust part 4

Continuing from Day 318 – From awkwardness to self-trust part 1 and part 2 and part 3 I walk self-forgiveness on the major points mentioned here to puncture my realizations with practical common sense and take responsibility for the manifested self-dishonesty in regarding to a... —

Day 320 – From awkwardness to self-trust part 3

Continuing from Day 318 – From awkwardness to self-trust part 1 and part 2 I checked tons of conspiracy theories, secret societies, ancient civilizations, crazy, wicked theories and all of a sudden I’ve found a youtube video, wherein a girl is stating out that she is portallin... —

Day 319 – From awkwardness to self-trust part 2

Continuing with my story- part 1 I went to a half year long trip to Asia, where I was introduced to the Rainbow hippie community, where I faced another great resistance: shy and shameful of my body – I was naked a lot of times with others(people believe hippies do naked sex al... —

Day 318 – From awkwardness to self-trust part 1

Sharing points about how I am utilizing to enter and participate within society to expose, understand and stop self-dishonesty within myself. Some personal history: I used to be quite an introvert, a quiet guy in the background and if I would have to describe my overall experi... —

Adapting to Unfortunate Events - Decade With Desteni

Living the word adaptability in the midst of something going wrong and everyone getting frustrated about it around me 545. Living Adaptability If you're up for learning how to start supporting ... —

Day 552: Back Chat (Self-Forgiveness)

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to split myself in two entities, myself and the voice in my head that I believe acts I the best interest of me, telling me to rebut what I hear from other and/or that I make up in my mind, that causes confusion and confl... —

Day 384: Solving Fear With Structure

I have worked a lot with fear, anxiety and insecurity in relation to work and managed to stabilize myself in many dimensions/areas. However, what is cool, and also challenging about my work, is that I am continuously moving into more expansive positions of responsibility, whic... —

Waking Up: What's There? - Decade With Desteni

What's the first thing that I usually have experienced upon waking up and the directive change I've discovered is possible in it 524. Redefining Routine Public Chats: —

Day 551: Back Chat (Simplistically Put)

That little voice that comes up in your head when you don’t have balls enough to say what you really want to, to the person you were talking to, for self-interested reasons such as fear, and/or the snobbish mummer no one can make out, as you turn around with your head down and... —

I Don't Feel Like It - Decade with Desteni

How to overcome the resistance to doing something and expanding in that moment, instead of wallowing into the 'same old' me If you're up for learning how to start supporting yourself, sign up to Desteni's Free Course: Thanks to the L... —

549. Being Physical

Or how to embrace the potential of who we are in our physical body through stopping the participation in our mind’s noise Continuing from 530. The Secret Behind Attraction This is the last word that I listed in the blog cited above wherein I started looking at all of the wor... —

Breaking The Ice - Decade With Desteni

Enjoying the bits of interactions with people, breaking the ice of the mind prejudices and appreciating fellow human beings :) Blogs: 537. Comfortable in My Own skin 526. Who Are You Tod... —

Day 550: Erasing Regret

The most interesting thing about regret is how we’ll do things in order for others to regret having done things to us, stating this is why you shouldn’t have done this that or the other to me, and it doesn’t have to be negative in nature, it could be as simple as presenting yo... —