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I started doing self-forgiveness in 2007. I can testify that this process of stopping the mind and birthing self here and assisting in creating heaven on earth works. It's all in my blogs and vlogs.See my links.
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At The Theater: There’s No One Checking Tickets: What Is Best For All? When there’s no person manning the entry gate, is it okay to just go inside the theater without paying? This was a question L asked himself and me before we get in the theatre because last time we were t... —juneroca.wordpress.com
The Guru And The Devotee: The Guru Personality Is The Same As The Devotee Personality: They Are Both Egos, Therefore NOT REAL. Can the feelings experienced by devotees – as the guru being more than themselves – be real? When i started meditation, 30 years ago, i was sure th... —juneroca.wordpress.com
The Movie:The Hangover II: The Personality Had A Hangover? Sept. 3, 2011 When we have a hangover we forget what happened the night before – usually because of too much alcohol. L and i watched this film yesterday, entitled, “Hangover II. The plot was simple. The three lead ... —juneroca.wordpress.com
Personality As Ones Identity Is Not REAL. Why do we define ourselves as the personality? When L and i went to L’s dad’s house to meet him, one – two weeks after i arrived in Dallas, he asked me how old i am. I told him my age, i said 53. Then he asked me if i know how old h... —juneroca.wordpress.com
“How do i get assisted and how do i assist?”: Assisting Others As Me August 28.2011 How do i get assisted in an agreement/”relationship”? How do i assist the person i am in an agreement/”relationship” with? How do i assist others in addition to assisting me and assisting L?... —juneroca.wordpress.com
“I was giving salesmen a hard time”: SALES and My PROCESS What is Sales? I am part of a multi-level business that teaches us how to sell and how to present oneself to people so they will decide to buy the products . Everything of course was from the point of separation, mea... —juneroca.wordpress.com
The Monk and Self-forgiveness L and i went to a group i had been a member of in the past for 29 years. I stopped attending the group meditation 3 years ago as i started to do self-forgiveness for everything of the mind – i found out the mind is not real as it has no physica... —juneroca.wordpress.com
Smile As Self Expression Why do we smile to someone? L and i ate dinner outside and the waitress was talking about many things. L and i laughed, but the laughter was just done to please the waitress , as she also served us before, we “felt obligated to smile to her”. The st... —juneroca.wordpress.com
Going To Church And Self-Forgiveness Why do people go to church? Is it because of the music, the pastor or their friends ? I would say all of the above. L and i went to the Christian church as we were going to present a fundraising opportunity for the pastor. I had been r... —juneroca.wordpress.com
Random Acts of Madness : Walking Barefooted and Putting Salsa On My Face Link: http://www.facebook.com/video/video.php?v=10150276770078670&comments What is fun? What is boredom? Are they separate from us that we have to “desire to have” or be “sad without”? 3 weeks ago, I s... —juneroca.wordpress.com
“I don’t like to see you as a man dressed as a wo-man”: What We Think Is Real Is Not Real. We Are The Breath In Every Moment Here July 31, 2011 What makes woman a woman? What makes a man a man? Do we define ourselves by what clothes we wear? Does the sexual organs define wh... —juneroca.wordpress.com
“I Do Not Like Her To Attend” L’s Uncle and Self-Direction Related Link: http://juneroca.wordpress.com/2011/07/25/ls-uncle-self-directing-self-and-others-as-self-within-relationships-or-agreements/ When L’s uncle, J, was inviting L to attend his graduation he told him that ... —juneroca.wordpress.com
“Will you marry me”? The Mind’s Way of Having Fun Related link: http://juneroca.wordpress.com/2011/07/24/ls-brother-self-direction-within-relationships/ The phrase “Will you marry me”? has been used many times in many different ways. This time we will look at this within my... —juneroca.wordpress.com
“That’s It”: Disagreement From Having 2 Different Realities That Are NOT REAL L and I had been together for about 3 months. When we started the agreement, there’s lots of “differences”. I have brown skin, he has black. He is 29 and i am 53 years old. I had one breast remove... —juneroca.wordpress.com
“I cannot assist my dad in his process”: He is alone in his process of self – purification Why do we have to call our dad, “dad”? Why not call him by his name? I don’t know the answer to this because i was told at a young age to call my dad, “dad”, and so i did and that be... —juneroca.wordpress.com
Assisting “The Other”: Physical Interaction Within An Agreement One day, i asked L if he could assist me. I asked because i never had a chance to ask a guy from my previous ”relationships” any assistance regarding physical interaction. Everything was about an expertise in t... —juneroca.wordpress.com
Proof That What I Was Thinking And What Our Friend Was Thinking Was NOT REAL Related Link: Aversion to ask questions http://juneroca.wordpress.com/2011/07/26/the-waitress-and-the-mind/ Related Link: Proof that What I Was Thinking Was Not Real: http://juneroca.wordpress.com... —juneroca.wordpress.com
L’s Friend, D : Fight between Friends and Self-forgiveness Related Link: http://juneroca.wordpress.com/2011/06/29/i-want-to-help-real-and-covert-kiss-and-self-forgiveness/ D, had been L’s friend since he was very young. I noticed though that L was not sharing his process wi... —juneroca.wordpress.com
The Waitress and The Mind: L and I have the same points: Knowledge and Information We went to an Ethiopian restaurant for dinner one day. I asked the waitress if i can have cutlery and she said, “we use no cutlery, because we eat by hand. I was surprised because where my bo... —juneroca.wordpress.com
I “Proved” That What I Was “Thinking” was NOT REAL One weekend, L and I went to a buffet to eat. When we were walking inside the restaurant, i saw someone’s neck turn towards the direction we were heading. Our eyes met and at that pont, one thought came to my mind, “why are... —juneroca.wordpress.com
“My Mom Did Not Greet Me On My Birthday”! My Mom and Me Within My Process When i was with my mom, i noticed that my tone of voice change, I become a little girl who needs a mother. I also noticed that when we talk on the phone, and when i say “mommy”, i “feel” a connection,... —juneroca.wordpress.com
L’s Uncle: Self-Directing Self and Others as Self within “Relationships” or Agreements Related Link: http://juneroca.wordpress.com/2011/07/06/competition-andthe-minds-attempt-to-win/ L and i invited his Dad, D, to come so we can assist him do a video to upload in his youtu... —juneroca.wordpress.com
L’s Brother : Self-forgiveness and Self-Direction within “Relationships” or Agreements Related Link: http://juneroca.wordpress.com/2011/06/30/when-schedules-run-our-lives/ One day, L posted something on his wall. It runs like this: All ‘prayers’ to a ‘higher powe... —juneroca.wordpress.com
Self-honesty, Doing Business and Raw Foods We invited L’s uncle to have dinner with us. He’s a chef. He expressed interest in putting my ‘raw’ food preparation in his catering business menu, so i prepared some ‘raw’ food for us. He photographed the ‘raw’ food on the table ... —juneroca.wordpress.com
When Schedules Run Our Lives Nature L’s brother called him one weekend. He wants to see him so L asked him to come over. We were scheduled to go out and see some clients in our business that day from 8AM to 2 PM. His brother came over and asked L to help him by giving him a ... —juneroca.wordpress.com
Self-directing L’s female ex- coworker Plant Shadows We were sitting in a restaurant when L got a call from Iv who was his ex-coworker. I was on a call then, and so when i finished, i overheard their conversation. I noticed that L was having a mind conversation with this wom... —juneroca.wordpress.com
Physical Interaction With/As Music Removing the Cover June 8, 2011 I suggested we use music in physical interaction, as i have always been ‘emotionally’ affected by music in the past. I see that i can transcend within this. So, i asked L to download some music and then i pic... —juneroca.wordpress.com
‘I want to Help’ :Real and Covert Kiss and Self-forgiveness Earth L has been ‘helping’ a friend by giving him a lift to work. Let’s call him D. He was hospitalized for 2 weeks for some ‘minor’ ailment. About a month ago, he came out of the hospital so L and gave him a lift... —juneroca.wordpress.com
