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I share my realizations and perspectives within learning how to live life in self-honesty to expand and grow as a person in this world. #IMatter

Marlen Vargas Del Razo

556. Transcending Inequality One at a Time

A story of how to be the starting point of getting past social and economic statuses through changing our relationships towards one another I read the following article today Commercialisation: the antithesis of sharing by Mohammed Mesbahi and I find some supportive aspects he... —

Stopping Comparison - Decade With Desteni

How to embrace our uniqueness and individuality while also learning more about our potential when comparing ourselves to others in a supportive manner. 549. Being Physical 555. Opinions and Self-A... —

555. Opinions and Self-Aware Assessments

“Opinions are always ego and are never aware of what is life really opinions can only exist in the mirror as ego” – Bernard Poolman Here I’m having a look at how I become complicit to building the ego in our minds by giving worth, value and ‘the time of day’ to opinions an... —

Do It For Yourself - Decade With Desteni

Being my own starting point and stopping patterns of seeking recognition, validation and appreciation from others - and instead live that as self-expression 535. Self-Enjoyment and Expression —

554. Reverse Engineering Inner Conflict

Or how to walk through a point of anger or blame and see through it towards self-responsibility in one’s life creation As I was organizing some files and doing a general cleanup in my computer, I saw some documents that I had written out over a year and a half ago where, ther... —

From Arrogance to Humbleness - Decade With Desteni

Sharing about the initial stages of walking the Desteni process and what I've realized about my stance towards people/the world back then and how it is now Check out: Desteni Radio #24 - Desteni as Dogma —

553. Impulsiveness and Slowing Down

Here I’ll share a bit further on a vlog I recorded about a situation that I created and participated on, and share more on how when we are caught up in an experience that is perceived as ‘positive’ and getting excited about something, that is where I see I can also easily lose... —

Blinded By Self Interest & Owning the Consequences

A cautionary tale of only considering one's self-interest and missing out others in the equation to create what's best for all If you're up for learning how to start supporting yourself, sign up to Desteni's Free Course: Thanks to... —

552. Who Am I as a Savior?

There’s been a pattern I’ve lived within my relationships of wanting to save the other person, in a way deliberately selecting a particular partner that I can see as a ‘rough stone’ that I can carve and sculpt for them to become the ‘better person’ I believe they can be. Now i... —

Trying to Save or Change your Partner? - Relationship Success Support

Have you ever been in a relationship where you experienced the need to change or save your partner? Should we really accept and love our partner for who they are or is it okay to want to see change? If so, when and how? If you can relate to these questions, join us for a Live ... —

551. Walking Through What Wasn’t Done in the Past

Something I got to see and realize today is how I have tended to look at the past and what ‘I didn’t get to do’ within a particular experience of regret or pondering ‘what could have been,’ which created certain outflows that I had deemed to be ‘manifested consequences’ consid... —

Stopping Self Sentencing - Decade With Desteni

Changing the relationship to my past and giving myself a second chance to actually live for the first time ever within walking this process with Desteni Structural Resonance Alignment Research Desteni Marlen What is Leaders... —

550. From Expectations to Self-Grounding

Throughout this process I’ve learned how creating expectations can be a secure trip to get disappointed most of the times, considering how in our minds we tend to ‘elevate’ ourselves in creating these ideals as in ‘perfect or idyllic situations’ about an event or situation tha... —

Adapting to Unfortunate Events - Decade With Desteni

Living the word adaptability in the midst of something going wrong and everyone getting frustrated about it around me 545. Living Adaptability If you're up for learning how to start supporting ... —

Waking Up: What's There? - Decade With Desteni

What's the first thing that I usually have experienced upon waking up and the directive change I've discovered is possible in it 524. Redefining Routine Public Chats: —

I Don't Feel Like It - Decade with Desteni

How to overcome the resistance to doing something and expanding in that moment, instead of wallowing into the 'same old' me If you're up for learning how to start supporting yourself, sign up to Desteni's Free Course: Thanks to the L... —

549. Being Physical

Or how to embrace the potential of who we are in our physical body through stopping the participation in our mind’s noise Continuing from 530. The Secret Behind Attraction This is the last word that I listed in the blog cited above wherein I started looking at all of the wor... —

Breaking The Ice - Decade With Desteni

Enjoying the bits of interactions with people, breaking the ice of the mind prejudices and appreciating fellow human beings :) Blogs: 537. Comfortable in My Own skin 526. Who Are You Tod... —

548. Being Dedicated

Or how to redefine the starting point for living the word dedication having self as the starting point § Continuing from 530. The Secret Behind Attraction I looked at this word and found how I have lived dedication in several ways in my life, but a common factor is that all o... —

Life Hack with Living Words - Decade with Desteni

A Tip to apply when feeling 'directionless' and experiencing boredom... Live a Word! If you're up for learning how to start supporting yourself, sign up to Desteni's Free Course: Thanks to the Library for Living Education for everythi... —

547. How to Live Humbleness

§ Continuing from: 546. Exploring Humbleness and: 530. The Secret Behind Attraction Today I’ll write some self forgiveness to see what I haven’t yet lived and applied in relation to humbleness and the specific and subtle aspects where I miss out on living this very relev... —

Focusing on Others vs Focusing On Me - Decade with Desteni

How I've assisted myself with living words like self-responsibility, my relationship to things that I do/ work as an expression of myself and stopping measuring 'who I am' in relation to others. If you're up for learning how to start supporting yourself, sign up to Desteni... —

From Addictions to Physical Stability - Decade With Desteni

What is behind our need to be constantly experiencing something and how can it be transcended? If you're up for learning how to start supporting yourself, sign up to Desteni's Free Course: Thanks to the Library for Living Education fo... —

546. Exploring Humbleness

Or sharing the different ways in which I lived the opposite of humbleness, an initial attempt of being humble and the current application of this word in my process § Continuing from: 530. The Secret Behind Attraction When looking at the word humbleness what first comes up... —

Living Self Trust - Decade With Desteni

Sharing the process of 532. Expressing Self-Trust and Confidence Suggested interview: Wherever I am, I am Here - Quantum Mind Self Awareness —

545. Living Adaptability

§ Continuing from: 530. The Secret Behind Attractionand second part to 544. Being Inadaptable as Self-Limitation I had an interesting dream after having written about this point of inadaptability which I explain in a nutshell in this vlog that I made today for context, but ... —

Separation Through Judgments - Decade With Desteni

How acting upon judgments diminishes our ability to embrace our equality? Sharing first hand experience 464.Changing My World View If you're up for learning how to start supporting yourself... —

544. Being Inadaptable as Self-Limitation

§ Continuing from: 530. The Secret Behind Attraction When looking at this word I can self-honestly see that I have not yet lived ‘adaptability’ to the extent that I see I could. I may be living this word when it comes to getting along with people, but there is a particular ... —

From Self Sabotage to Staring Over - Decade With Desteni

Walking through the 'Absolutist' habit and what it takes to be flexible and give oneself another chance to start over again If you're up for learning how to start supporting yourself, sign up to Desteni's Free Course: 452. Absolutism i... —

543. Living Simplicity

Or how to step out of a complex mindset and over-wrought approaches towards life § Continuing from: 530. The Secret Behind Attraction Before I dive into the word to look at today, I’d like to reflect on what this process of making a list of all the points that I have separa... —