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I share my realizations and perspectives within learning how to live life in self-honesty to expand and grow as a person in this world. #IMatter

Marlen Vargas Del Razo

487. The Origins of My Conditional Expression

Or how I defined my expression based on others’ reception instead of being my own starting point for and as it. Sunday was ‘the origin’ day because in the morning as I shared on my last blog I was looking at the origins of ourselves in existence. And during the afternoon, I ... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

486. Understanding Our Origin

Or how to stop wondering for truths out there and focus on the potential that we have to develop within ourselves I had a bit of a moment today when starting to translate the series ‘The Secret History of the Universe’ because I remember when I first heard it some 4 and a ha... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

485. Let’s Make Us F.O.O.L. Again!

Or how to point the finger back at ourselves in relation to loving or hating political effigies This morning as I went to buy some tortillas (staple Mexican food) the man that was selling them was listening to the news talking about – yes, you guessed – Trump’s inauguration... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

484. Redefining Desires

Or how to see what we are separating ourselves from in wishful thinking to instead see what is feasible and what we can change or create in our lives for our personal and collective betterment. desire  noun a strong feeling of wanting to have something or wishing for somethi... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

483. Standing Our Ground in the Physical

Or how to practically apply the principle of ‘two or more in my name and I am there’ in our physical process. Sharing here some of what we opened up in an Eqafe hangout today with Garbrielle, where we could look at a practical way of understanding what it means to decide ‘Who ... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

482. Redefining Empathy

Or How to stop the experience of ‘misery loves company’ as system-empathy into a practical understanding directed to create solutions. Dictionary definition: empathy  noun the ability to understand and share the feelings of another. ORIGIN early 20th cent.: from G... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

481. Living Emptiness

Or how to practically create and live the word emptiness as a result of first processing the ‘mental garbage’ in us There are times when I have experienced myself to be very busy developing a constant ‘thought’ in my mind about something and it becomes like a form of mental-m... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

480.From Mental Values to Life Values

“Those who stand on tiptoes Do not stand firmly Those who rush ahead Don’t get very far. Those who try to outshine others Dim their own light Those who call themselves righteous Can’t know how wrong they are Those who boast of their accomplishments Diminish the things they hav... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

479. Making an Impression

Or how to redefine the process of desiring to make an impression in self-interest to making an impression as an expression of what’s best for all There was a very supportive audio that brought up a relevant word for me to look at and that’s ‘impress’ and impression, where th... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

478. Want Transparency and Integrity? Let’s BE It

Or how to start becoming the solution to all lies and deception within our very own minds There was a great opening by Cerise and Joe to consider how it would be for every person in our lives to know about what we have thought, imagined, fantasized in absolute detail doing or ... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

477. Physical Attraction

Or how to stop the objectification of ourselves as images to generate any form of mental experience. A timely topic emerged today in a group discussion about physical attraction in relation to other people, how to face it, understand it and walk through it to a point of self... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

476. The Taste of Real Freedom

Or how to walk through from transient obstacles/mindfucks and delusions to a solid and grounded decision of self-creation A simple reflection today on how to turn a situation of apparent conflict or stagnation into one of active involvement and participation, so that one can... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

475. Self Commitment in Relationships

Or how to walk through distractions from developing one’s relationship with oneself and another. My point in this process is definitely personal relationships, that’s the ‘weakness’ or ‘weak point’ that I am now in a phase of my life that I have decided to create and stand i... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

474. The Intensity of Wanting To Change Others

Or how to slow myself down when attempting to make others see what I see for their own process of self-change Continuing from 472. Humbleness in Process I’ve noticed another situation wherein I have to consider and apply humbleness in process. This is about an experience tha... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

473. Redefining Entertainment

Or walking a process of my relationship to movies and TV series into a supportive part of my reality and self-creation I read a timely post on the Desteni Forum about media consumption – which I suggest to read through because this blog is a response to that – and I definite... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

472. Humbleness in Process

Or how to stop the recreation of consciousness values while walking the process from consciousness to living awareness. I was having a conversation with my partner about the importance of being humble in this process wherein it can happen that upon making the decision of chang... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

471. Self-Forgiveness on Self-Limitation

Or how to see through fears and paranoia within a scenario of facing manifested consequences There are various things that have created an impact on me just in the span of the last 12 hours and I’m seeing things that I considering as clearly before. The context is seeing som... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

470. Exploring the Word Resilience

Or how to consider the physical properties of our bodies in worst case scenarios and facing manifested consequences There’s a particular set of things that at times becomes difficult for us humans in general to accept and embrace, and that’s all the many manifested consequenc... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

469.Minimizing a Point

Or how I’ve been suppressing points to change and correct within me based on judging them as ‘meaningless’ and not a big deal. Today what opened up for me is how I’ve been ‘Minimizing’ something that emerges within me to look at it, as in making it a seemingly insignificant ... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

468. The Insta-Accounting Relationship System

Or how to express when the factors may vary, but one can remain constant. One thing I’ve noticed with more clarity lately is how my approach to meeting people has changed from a constricting, nerve-wracking way to a comfortable and freeing way. I shared a bit on that in the 46... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

467. Stepping Out of the Zone

Or how to redirect oneself into self-creation when being more quiet and stable within oneself. A common experience that emerges within oneself after some time as in several years of being ‘processing’ one’s mind and upon working with the basics of understanding one’s emotions ... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

466.Comfort in Communication

Or the experiences after getting rid of judgments, fears and expectations when communicating with others. I’d like to share about how things can go when communicating with other people and having no expectations, secret agendas and judgments within oneself before, during and a... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

465. Let’s Learn from the Russian Way

Or how to stop desires for revenge and retaliation and instead focus on one’s self-responsibility. There is definitely a lot that we can learn from this year’s world events but one definitely closed the year with a zing from my perspective. That is Vladimir Putin’s decision ... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

464.Changing My World View

Or how I stopped feeding a back door/way out or ‘quick fix’ belief in my reality A continuation on: 454. Embracing Living Potentials There’s something interesting that I’ve noticed not only in myself but through and walking with various individuals I also have the opportu... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

463. Redefining Hope

Or how to practically live a word that usually only means an expectation, a desire, an intent I’ve challenged a fellow Destonian, Tormod, to redefine the word hope, but whenever I see within myself and I realize that I also have some redefinition to do around that word then ... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

462. ‘Fake News’ Crackdown Starts Within Ourselves

Or how to take an external problem and start changing it from within first. It’s been interesting to look at the developments in relation to the media and how there’s been a mainstream media attempt to ‘black out’ alternative media or any kind of news/media that is not coming ... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

461. Transforming Christmas Within Me

Or, how to practically change from being the Grinch to a person that actually embodies the principles of living in equality and what’s best for all in practical manners. Ok so, Christmas passed and based on the commitment shared at the beginning of the month, I must recognize ... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

460. American Pastoral: My Reflection

I recently watched the movie ‘American Pastoral’ and I can say it became a very interesting reflection to myself and my past in the role of a teenage daughter within a family. In fact, I wanted to catch this movie in the theatres because I watched the trailer and saw the plot ... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

459. Meditation: What is Missing in it?

There’s a movie I recently watched called ‘Choice’ and it caught my attention because it is about meditation and people promoting its use because it has assisted them so much in their lives. So, the following is going to be my perspective based on the understanding and self-aw... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

458. Physical Support: Sharing Feedback

Or What have I been focusing on in relation to assisting and supporting my physical body? I realize that I have not yet shared some of the seemingly ‘unimportant’ points (according to my mind) that I do test out and apply in my day to day related to physical movement and suppo... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com