Member since January 2008.

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I share my realizations and perspectives within learning how to live life in self-honesty to expand and grow as a person in this world. #IMatter

Marlen Vargas Del Razo

614. Understanding Mistakes

I want to share how I’ve redefined my relationship to ‘making a mistake’ which I have shared before in terms of how it’s relevant to not judge myself for it or go into a guilt trip and so forth. But here I’m focusing more on realizing that there are mistakes that I see I have ... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

613. Understanding

This has been a keyword for myself over this year that’s closing today and I’ve found great satisfaction and even pleasure in getting to understand myself – and not only myself – but also get to know and understand others better. It makes everything much simpler and much more ... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

612. Self Appreciation and Self Acceptance

One of the gifts from walking through the specifics to see what is behind the pattern of assuming and projecting what I am thinking and experiencing onto others is being able to see what I am still thinking, perceiving or believing about myself. The overall character within th... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

611. Assuming What Others Are Experiencing

I’ve written a couple of blogs about assuming and how I have to take a breath, and slow down whenever I see myself doing this, but the reality is that stopping is not the only solution because there is a righteousness veil within considering that ‘I know that what I’m seeing, ... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

610. The Mirror Process: Changing How I Look at Myself and Others

I watched a couple of videos from SOUL about the mirror process which is based on how we tend to judge, compare ourselves to other people based on certain appearances and expression that we judge as being better than our own or us lacking what we see in others, and I could rel... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

609. Courage in Self-Expression

I want to share about the ways in which I’ve been opening up to a new understanding of what ‘living’ is about and letting go of a stifling rigidity that I’ve kept within an idea of what I like, enjoy, the kind of person I, what I dislike, what I’m supposed to be and do and I’v... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

608. Being Genuine

Or how to create the space to be real in our interactions while also working through our initial reactions or experiences in order to expand ourselves in our relationships This word ‘genuine’ emerged as a solution to live when seeing myself in situations or moments where I was... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

607. Understanding Individual Self-Honesty

There is a relevant thing that I got to recently finally understand about how there’s this tendency in me that has become ‘so much me’ that I don’t actually notice unless there’s immediate feedback for me to look at it, and this is not an entirely ‘new’ thing for me but it led... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

606. Stepping into Self Creation

Or how to walk through the Mother-Theresa type of personality design in order to start considering myself in the equation of self-creation I’ve been working with something practically throughout the past month and that has to do with embracing the new potentials within my life... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

605. What can I learn about myself in natural disasters?

What I experienced the past month was a literal shaking of my foundation, of all that I took for granted, of everything that I believed would be there ‘forever’ and suddenly see the constant changes that can be triggered in our lives sometimes in a literal shocking and destruc... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

604. Breathe, Keep Calm AND Have a Plan

Or how to first sort out the emotional fears and reactions to unexpected natural disasters while developing a plan of action to know what to do in such cases. This has been quite a literally shaky couple of weeks with the earthquakes we’ve gotten here in Mexico and I’ll share... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

603. Keeping Indulgences Secret

Or how it is easy to not question anything that feels good or positive in our experience instead of seeing to what extent it is affecting ourselves and our relationship to others, in order to understand it and take responsibility for our expression. Yesterday I had a reveali... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

602. Flexibility within Reality

Or how I decided to live a day where things didn’t turn out as ‘I expected’ and prevented myself from going into an exasperation about it and instead turn it into an opportunity to develop patience and understanding. So, part of my plans in the day was to write a blog yester... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

601. Power Plays in Social Contexts – Back To Self

Or how I became part of a ‘power play’ in a group of people with body language, what I discovered about myself and what I learned from this experience. Following up with the previous topic on arrogance, I mentioned another situation that I didn’t get to write out where I notic... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

600. Understanding Arrogance

Or how to let go of the idea I had about myself as ‘untouchable’ based on knowledge and information in order to truly live and express ME. So this is a word that was opened up in group discussions and in a couple of situations I’ve faced in my life in the last couple of days,... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

599. Letting Go of an Infatuation

Or closing doors or cycles from the past by verifying in physical reality what was the ‘myth’ I had created about certain things/people in my life that I can now let go of. The word ‘infatuation’ just popped up as I asked myself what is the word that I require to look at and ... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

598. Opening up with Parents

Or sharing bits of my teenage years and how my relationship with my parents has evolved throughout the years of walking this process with Desteni. I listened to these two Eqafe audio recordings today Children and Isolation – Perfecting the Human Race – Parenting – Part 79 and ... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

597. Embracing My Mind

“Be humble in your relationship to the mind, humbleness meaning to walk it in understanding and consideration, it’s like this beast that you gotta tame. And approaching the beast with an attacking egotistical superiority is going to just unsettle it even more, so take it easy,... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

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596. The Gifts of Criticism

Or how to walk from a reaction to criticism towards an acknowledgement, discernment, learning and embracing of it as a way to assist ourselves to grow and develop ourselves to better ourselves in many ways. I was listening to this documentary IDO PORTAL – JUST MOVE (filmed by ... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

595. All that Could Have Been…

Or walking through and identifying an experience of regret through self-forgiveness So, as I was watching a video today on Facebook from Leila at the Desteni farm, I saw that I had this knot in my throat forming – emotional experience – because of how much I have appreciated h... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

594. Who Decides?

Or how I’ve been able to establish a pillar of support for myself from the time I decided to ‘kick a habit’ and get to know who I am as the authority of myself. Last week there was an interesting discussion in our group chat about self-authority and how many times we believe w... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

593. Missing 5 seconds in reality

Or how the pattern of desiring to get things done as fast and efficiently as possible can carry consequences where reality hits hard to see what I’m participating in. I had an interesting situation going on yesterday when I was out to buy a ticket for a concert that I’ve been ... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

592. Looking for Meaning in Creation

Or how I imposed this ‘holier than thou’ experience to art creation and how I decide to stand in relation to it as a point of self-expansion. Continuing from the points I opened up yesterday and going straight into the point of ‘looking for meaning’. This also opened up throu... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

591. Looking Forward and Missing Out the Life

Or how I’ve realized the expectations I’ve built upon ‘my life’ creating a ‘waiting mode’ for these ‘grandiose things’ yet to happen, instead of appreciating life as it takes place in every moment to truly learn to live. I’ve been looking at my relationship with ‘meaning’ and ... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

590. From Defensiveness to Openness

Or deciding to challenge my own past decisions to ‘get away from’ certain relationships and instead decide to develop a common ground with them this time around. In looking back at this month that ends today, there’s been a lot of ‘movements’ going on which I’ve decided to do ... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

589. Exigency towards my body

Or changing the relationship of despotism towards my physical body to one of humbleness and consideration I’ve found the latest recordings Redefining Physical – The Crucifixion of Jesus – Part 109 and Redefining Physical (Part 2) – The Crucifixion of Jesus – Part 110 from E... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

588. Physically Slowing Down

Or how I’ve been focusing on and starting to live the ‘physical pace’ or ‘breath pace’ of what it means to live moment by moment in the physical. For a few weeks now I have been deliberately focusing on slowing down in my day to day living, in the minute details of my ‘ever... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

587. Adapting to the New instead of Wallowing in the Old

Or walking through an experience of ‘standing up’ in my dream and not going into past patterns upon seeing familiar ‘triggering points’ to do the opposite before. I had a dream about moving to a new city to live with my partner and essentially finding myself in a completely ... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

Forever Pure: A Mirror For Humanity

Sharing how through watching the documentary ‘Forever Pure’ and hearing what the creator of it Maya Zinshtein had to say about her intent with it changed my approach towards documentaries in a significant way, learning to see them as the mirror of my own errors as humanity, in... —marlenvargasdelrazo.com

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