Member since January 2008.

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I'm a human being that has decided to live by the principle of Life in Equality and place myself as a point of support for everyone that's willing to birth themselves as Life in this physical world.

Life-Birth Assistant/Supporter

Marlen Vargas Del Razo

525. Living Dedication

Or how to apply this word in different contexts and situations within this process of self-change and self-creation This word has come up as a solution to apply when it comes to walking this process from consciousness to awareness. One thing that’s required is self-dedication,... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

524. Redefining Routine

Or The Gift of Responsibilities and Discipline on a day to day basis as a point of stability and consistency in my life What I’ve discovered more and more through this process is how once that one decides to walk through an experience and does all the necessary work to see beh... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

523. I Don’t Want To Bother Others

I’ll share some extra perspectives on a cool topic that Cerise and Joe opened up in this video ‘I don’t want to be a bother’ about this pattern or habit some of us have in terms of going into a personality of ‘not wanting to bother others’ or ‘take their time’ when we are faci... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

522. Standing Up From The Past

Or stopping self-definitions and self-judgments according to my past and focusing on who I currently am in my life It was an interesting day because for various reasons I got to be recalling a lot about ‘who I was’ over 10 years ago and what I was like and what I was ‘up to’ ... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

521. The Invaluable Benefits of Self-Writing

Or how journaling and blogging have saved myself from my selective-memory deciding ‘who I was’ at a point in my life and instead, look back and see the reality of myself in my own words. I was quite amazed last night when reading some older readings in my personal journal and ... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

520. Self-Accountability and Tough Love

Or understanding and realizing the necessary nature of applying ‘tough love’ in order to honor our own lives and that of others in the name of what’s best for all. Many times while being in relationships we lose track of our personal self-agreement and where we stand in person... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

519. From Fear of Speaking up to Doing So

Or how to realize that those things that we fear the most and prevent doing in our lives hold a key to our self-honesty and self-creation One of the things that I feared doing was speaking up to people that I had been in a relationship with and I feared doing it because of fe... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

518. Learning To Listen

Yesterday there was a very cool discussion that opened up in a group chat about communication and what happens when one shares a bit ‘too much’ from the get go with a person as in talking too much in a little amount of time, as well as not listening to our interlocutor, result... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

517. Mirroring Judgments

Or self-forgiving the judgments that I have believe ‘others create’ towards me and discover: it’s always been me. I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to procrastinate getting to write about the subject of ‘what will others say’ because of considering tha... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

516. What Will Others Say?

Or debunking our own ‘after thoughts’ that we believe others hold against us and discovering, it’s all created by me. I’ll start by sharing that I regularly write notes about things that come up within me during the day (written on the back of sales-tickets, to use that whole... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

515. Remembering The Process

Or understanding the dedication of self-change and actively working on creating and living to our utmost potential Many times we want to create an experience of self-acceptance, self-trust, self-confidence, having a sense of security, being fearless and being stable enough to... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

514. Debunking My Intellectual Arrogance

Or learning to apply the principle of ‘Investigate all things and keep what’s best’ and create a constructive outcome of a personal investigation Today I woke up and listened to some more information that I’ve been following through for some months that essentially debunk and ... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

513. How to Live the Word Control?

Or exploring the negative aspects of control in order to see the supportive potential that this word contains as well for my life The first association that comes to this word is definitely ‘control-freak’ which is one of the things I’ve shared about throughout these blogs as ... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

512. Process Works!

Or realizing the ways in which we can genuinely change and face challenging times in our lives with grace and self respect Lately I have been surprising myself in the possible ways to face what would usually be a rather uncomfortable, depressing, difficult and generally ‘shitt... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

511. Taming Emotions

Or what I observed about myself in a recent dream and how it relates to our possibility stand up in worst case scenarios I had an interesting dream a few days ago that I find relevant to share because it speaks about my own relationship to emotions and specially fears that wer... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

510. From Split to Integrity

Today I watched the movie ‘Split’ and only now I realize how it’s been somewhat common for me to use the word Split for situations where I have compromised myself and where I haven’t stood completely ‘whole’ in certain situations or with people in my life, facing the eventual ... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

509. Walking From the Past or Future, Into Self-Presence

Or how to stop projecting oneself in the past or into the future and instead walk out of that alternate reality into owning one’s physical reality I watched Gian’s latest vlog on a particular process he walked where it is quite astounding how something that has been generall... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

508. Let’s Stop Repeating Ourselves

Or how to stop repeating the worst of ourselves in the past in our current moment with self-awareness and self-honesty One of the great things about learning to observe oneself in one’s mind and learning to be aware of the patterns, habits, tendencies, ways of ‘being’ that w... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

507. From V-Day to U-Day

I read the following quote by Sunette Spies today and I see it as a very important message for all of us to consider in days like today where Valentine’s day has been for many – including myself in the past – a cause of anger, sadness or despair for not being in a relationship... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

506. From Despair to a Constructive Aftermath

The aftermath here is the time after one has faced a particular outcome that wasn’t expected or preferred in relation to something that we were investing ourselves to create. That can be a particular project that doesn’t gain as much traction as expected, a job that we get fir... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

505. Why Do We Hate?

Or understanding hate as a way to avoid looking at how we created expectations towards others being or doing that which we desired/wanted for ourselves. This has been a question that I consider we have all had in our lives at some point and unfortunately like many other ‘darke... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

504. Stepping Out of Comfort Zones

Or looking at the limiting nature of ‘comfort zones’ and why it is necessary to step out of them in order to live to our utmost potential. Getting out of a comfort zone might seem scary, sometimes undesirable, sometimes plain ‘torturing’ but it is only so based on how we have ... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

503. Redefining Logic to Develop Common Sense

Or learning to question ‘who we are’ in the factors used to create a ‘logical outcome’ and in doing so, change how we live within our minds. Several years ago I came to understand that logic and common sense is not the same thing. That meant that the way in which I had ... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

502. From Feeling Sorry to Owning our Consequences

Or what does it reveal about me to ‘feel sorry for others’ and how to turn it into a supportive point of change in me There’s this experience that I have noticed as one of those very ingrained aspects of myself where feeling sorry for another becomes a way to create a form of ... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

501. Taking Responsibility Sets Us Free

Or how to Own our Creation, Learn from it and Stand up from it as a process of self-empowerment This morning I noticed how we have the ability to wake up in stability but at the least movement of my mind assessing my current reality and a process of change and consequence I ... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

500. Standing in the Eye of the Storm

Or how to decide to walk through consequences in a directive and stable manner One very supportive realization within this process of self-honesty is that whenever we face particular situations where emotions still wind up within us – like an anxiety, nervousness, stress, worr... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

499. From Captivity to Creating the Space to Grow

Or how to create relationships as safe and supportive spaces to change and outgrow the past as individuals I’ve been noticing how it is that we create our own entrapment as definitions toward one another wherein we don’t actively consider the ability for another person to ch... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

498. Deconstructing the Default Self-Specialness

Continuing from the previous blog 497. From Displacement to Integration Here sharing Self-Forgiveness on the points I am committing myself to acknowledge as my creation, as my allowed participation in my mind that I want to change and turn into a supportive outcome for myse... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

497. From Displacement to Integration

Or how to curb an insta-reaction of feeling overshadowed by someone else’s presence and turn it into a moment of sharing the moment. I’ve become aware of reactions within myself wherein I don’t necessarily think about things but it all happens in a quantum moment – meaning in... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

496. Humming as a Suppression

Or how I’ve used humming/singing to myself as a way to not look at things that caused a moment of conflict in me I’ve noticed how there are very subtle ways of suppression, which are like ways in which I ‘swipe’ a thought, a glimpse, a memory of something that comes up when I... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com