Member since January 2008.

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I share my realizations and perspectives within learning how to live life in self-honesty to expand and grow as a person in this world. #IMatter

Marlen Vargas Del Razo

Life Support with Eqafe - Decade With Desteni

Thanks to the Library for Living Education for everything I've learned to apply in my life in this process: http://www.eqafe.com If you're up for learning how to start supporting yourself, sign up to Desteni's Free Course: http://lite.desteniiprocess.com/ —youtube.com

542. Living Expression

§ Continuing from: 530. The Secret Behind Attraction I have identified the word ‘expressive’ with a set of personality traits where a person speaks in an assertive, directive manner and using mannerisms that look somewhat ‘effusive’ or ‘extroverted’ to me, like moving hands... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

Learning from Mistakes - Decade With Desteni

How to transform Self-Judgment into a Learning Process for Self-Expansion and Change 517. Mirroring Judgments https://marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com/2017/02/24/517-mirroring-judgments/ Blog: 516. What Will Others Say? https://marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com/2017/02/2... —youtube.com

541. Creativity and Self-Creation

§ Continuing from: 530. The Secret Behind Attraction This word right here is ‘close to my heart’ so to speak considering how I have previously conceived creativity in a rather limited way, linking it to artistic skills for the most part and traits within myself and others t... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

The Support of Self-Writing - Decade With Desteni

What happens when we procrastinate writing and what do we create when we get back at it? Sharing here 521. The Invaluable Benefits of Self-Writing https://marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com/2017/02/28/521-the-invaluable-benefits-of-self-writing/ If you're up for starting ... —youtube.com

540. Being Funny

§ Continuing from: 530. The Secret Behind Attraction This word relates to the relationship to humor and jokes specifically where I genuinely enjoy laughing at someone’s jokes or expression that is generally intended within enjoying a moment of laughing out a bit. At some po... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

From Antagonism to Self Responsibility

What does it mean to stop fighting the world out there and embrace one's own responsibility as co-creator of this world? #DecadeWithDesteni Blog: 408. Taking it All Back to Self-Responsibility https://marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com/2014/07/01/408-taking-it-all-back-to-... —youtube.com

539. Taking Life Seriously

§ Continuing from: 530. The Secret Behind Attraction A particular trait that I had also defined as ‘superior’ was the expression of seriousness within people linked to a particular intellectual character wherein both points – the characterization or ‘portrayal’ at a physica... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

There Used To Be A Darkness - Decade With Desteni

Sharing about Embracing Living Potentials (Or how I plan to get rid of the ‘Doomsday character’) https://marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com/2016/12/01/454-embracing-living-potentials/ If you're up for starting doing this for yourself, sign up to Desteni's Free Course: http:/... —youtube.com

538. Living Authenticity

§ Continuing from: 530. The Secret Behind Attraction What does it really mean to be authentic in this world? And how have we shaped ourselves according to a desire to be authentic yet without having self as the starting point? Upon focusing and reflecting on this word today... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

537. Comfortable in My Own skin

§ Continuing from: 530. The Secret Behind Attraction Being comfortable in my own skin’ is something I’ve been paying close attention to and looking at with more detail these days, more so in the presence of more people, whether it’s people I know or simply people while walk... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

536. Transparency (No Pretense!)

§ Continuing from: 530. The Secret Behind Attraction Here I look straight into the word ‘pretentious’ as it being something that I have a general negative association to – and it being the opposite of the word I’m looking at integrating here which is transparency, without p... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

535. Self-Enjoyment and Expression

§ Continuing from: 530. The Secret Behind Attraction These two words expression go hand in hand and I’ve seen that in my case, they are also a result of me first sorting out any point that is creating noise within me and so discomfort in my body. Speaking of which, I just w... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

534. Comfort in Solitude

§ Continuing from: 530. The Secret Behind Attraction One of the outcomes of being used to being with another such as a partner in a relationship is that one becomes used to being in the company of another and that becomes a form of comfort for some of us, where whenever t... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

534. Living Passion in Purpose

Next word to explore and see who I am in relation to currently is passion and this word ever since I watched Gian’s video on it, it stuck with me in the sense of what I can consider a livable definition of passion in fact, and I share his vlog here for reference: Passion, You ... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

532. Expressing Self-Trust and Confidence

§ Continuing from: 531. Redefining Self-Confidence Here I’ll apply self-forgiveness on all the points I wrote out in the previous blogs, in order to tackle my self-created limitations and for once and for all rather see the benefit of owning my creation as my expression. I... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

531. Redefining Self-Confidence

§ Continuing from: 530. The Secret Behind Attraction Confidence is the first word to look at and the aspects that I see I require to fine tune this word are specifically in relation to an experience of hesitation, doubt and uncertainty that I’ve been facing interestingly en... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

530. The Secret Behind Attraction

Or how to transform an experience towards another into a learning process that gets us expanding our lives instead of diminishing them Back to my self-investigation and particularly focusing on relationships and specifically the attraction we can feel towards others and how to... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

529. Changing Human Relationships Starts With Ourselves

“When pondering the meaning of right human relations it is also helpful to conceive of the principle of sharing as a great social physician or planetary psychotherapist, one that has the power to heal in almost every possible way—by feeding the hungry and curing the diseased, ... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

528. Hostages of the Past

Or how I’ve been existing in righteousness about the ideas, beliefs, opinions and perceptions towards people that I haven’t seen in a long time yet have dared to create an opinion about ‘who they are’ in their lives – and standing up from the gossipy me. I listened to this aud... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

527. Deception: Where does it Really Start?

The other day I read and participated on an interesting thread at the Desteni Forum about the theory of the Earth being flat and it caught my attention because I have been part of the people that have investigated some of it in order to spend some time pondering whether we are... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

526. Who Are You Today? Asks Life

What I’ve been noticing more in the past days is how whenever there are points of change in our lives, an opportunity to face new patterns, behaviors, habits opens up at the same time, because change always means stepping out of the status quo where new doors open, some others... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

525. Living Dedication

Or how to apply this word in different contexts and situations within this process of self-change and self-creation This word has come up as a solution to apply when it comes to walking this process from consciousness to awareness. One thing that’s required is self-dedication,... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

524. Redefining Routine

Or The Gift of Responsibilities and Discipline on a day to day basis as a point of stability and consistency in my life What I’ve discovered more and more through this process is how once that one decides to walk through an experience and does all the necessary work to see beh... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

523. I Don’t Want To Bother Others

I’ll share some extra perspectives on a cool topic that Cerise and Joe opened up in this video ‘I don’t want to be a bother’ about this pattern or habit some of us have in terms of going into a personality of ‘not wanting to bother others’ or ‘take their time’ when we are faci... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

522. Standing Up From The Past

Or stopping self-definitions and self-judgments according to my past and focusing on who I currently am in my life It was an interesting day because for various reasons I got to be recalling a lot about ‘who I was’ over 10 years ago and what I was like and what I was ‘up to’ ... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

521. The Invaluable Benefits of Self-Writing

Or how journaling and blogging have saved myself from my selective-memory deciding ‘who I was’ at a point in my life and instead, look back and see the reality of myself in my own words. I was quite amazed last night when reading some older readings in my personal journal and ... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

520. Self-Accountability and Tough Love

Or understanding and realizing the necessary nature of applying ‘tough love’ in order to honor our own lives and that of others in the name of what’s best for all. Many times while being in relationships we lose track of our personal self-agreement and where we stand in person... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

519. From Fear of Speaking up to Doing So

Or how to realize that those things that we fear the most and prevent doing in our lives hold a key to our self-honesty and self-creation One of the things that I feared doing was speaking up to people that I had been in a relationship with and I feared doing it because of fe... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

518. Learning To Listen

Yesterday there was a very cool discussion that opened up in a group chat about communication and what happens when one shares a bit ‘too much’ from the get go with a person as in talking too much in a little amount of time, as well as not listening to our interlocutor, result... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com