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I share my realizations and perspectives within learning how to live life in self-honesty to expand and grow as a person in this world. #IMatter

Marlen Vargas Del Razo

539. Taking Life Seriously

§ Continuing from: 530. The Secret Behind Attraction A particular trait that I had also defined as ‘superior’ was the expression of seriousness within people linked to a particular intellectual character wherein both points – the characterization or ‘portrayal’ at a physica... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

There Used To Be A Darkness - Decade With Desteni

Sharing about Embracing Living Potentials (Or how I plan to get rid of the ‘Doomsday character’) https://marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com/2016/12/01/454-embracing-living-potentials/ If you're up for starting doing this for yourself, sign up to Desteni's Free Course: http:/... —youtube.com

538. Living Authenticity

§ Continuing from: 530. The Secret Behind Attraction What does it really mean to be authentic in this world? And how have we shaped ourselves according to a desire to be authentic yet without having self as the starting point? Upon focusing and reflecting on this word today... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

537. Comfortable in My Own skin

§ Continuing from: 530. The Secret Behind Attraction Being comfortable in my own skin’ is something I’ve been paying close attention to and looking at with more detail these days, more so in the presence of more people, whether it’s people I know or simply people while walk... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

536. Transparency (No Pretense!)

§ Continuing from: 530. The Secret Behind Attraction Here I look straight into the word ‘pretentious’ as it being something that I have a general negative association to – and it being the opposite of the word I’m looking at integrating here which is transparency, without p... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

535. Self-Enjoyment and Expression

§ Continuing from: 530. The Secret Behind Attraction These two words expression go hand in hand and I’ve seen that in my case, they are also a result of me first sorting out any point that is creating noise within me and so discomfort in my body. Speaking of which, I just w... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

534. Comfort in Solitude

§ Continuing from: 530. The Secret Behind Attraction One of the outcomes of being used to being with another such as a partner in a relationship is that one becomes used to being in the company of another and that becomes a form of comfort for some of us, where whenever t... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

534. Living Passion in Purpose

Next word to explore and see who I am in relation to currently is passion and this word ever since I watched Gian’s video on it, it stuck with me in the sense of what I can consider a livable definition of passion in fact, and I share his vlog here for reference: Passion, You ... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

532. Expressing Self-Trust and Confidence

§ Continuing from: 531. Redefining Self-Confidence Here I’ll apply self-forgiveness on all the points I wrote out in the previous blogs, in order to tackle my self-created limitations and for once and for all rather see the benefit of owning my creation as my expression. I... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

531. Redefining Self-Confidence

§ Continuing from: 530. The Secret Behind Attraction Confidence is the first word to look at and the aspects that I see I require to fine tune this word are specifically in relation to an experience of hesitation, doubt and uncertainty that I’ve been facing interestingly en... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

530. The Secret Behind Attraction

Or how to transform an experience towards another into a learning process that gets us expanding our lives instead of diminishing them Back to my self-investigation and particularly focusing on relationships and specifically the attraction we can feel towards others and how to... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

529. Changing Human Relationships Starts With Ourselves

“When pondering the meaning of right human relations it is also helpful to conceive of the principle of sharing as a great social physician or planetary psychotherapist, one that has the power to heal in almost every possible way—by feeding the hungry and curing the diseased, ... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

528. Hostages of the Past

Or how I’ve been existing in righteousness about the ideas, beliefs, opinions and perceptions towards people that I haven’t seen in a long time yet have dared to create an opinion about ‘who they are’ in their lives – and standing up from the gossipy me. I listened to this aud... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

527. Deception: Where does it Really Start?

The other day I read and participated on an interesting thread at the Desteni Forum about the theory of the Earth being flat and it caught my attention because I have been part of the people that have investigated some of it in order to spend some time pondering whether we are... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

526. Who Are You Today? Asks Life

What I’ve been noticing more in the past days is how whenever there are points of change in our lives, an opportunity to face new patterns, behaviors, habits opens up at the same time, because change always means stepping out of the status quo where new doors open, some others... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

525. Living Dedication

Or how to apply this word in different contexts and situations within this process of self-change and self-creation This word has come up as a solution to apply when it comes to walking this process from consciousness to awareness. One thing that’s required is self-dedication,... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

524. Redefining Routine

Or The Gift of Responsibilities and Discipline on a day to day basis as a point of stability and consistency in my life What I’ve discovered more and more through this process is how once that one decides to walk through an experience and does all the necessary work to see beh... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

523. I Don’t Want To Bother Others

I’ll share some extra perspectives on a cool topic that Cerise and Joe opened up in this video ‘I don’t want to be a bother’ about this pattern or habit some of us have in terms of going into a personality of ‘not wanting to bother others’ or ‘take their time’ when we are faci... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

522. Standing Up From The Past

Or stopping self-definitions and self-judgments according to my past and focusing on who I currently am in my life It was an interesting day because for various reasons I got to be recalling a lot about ‘who I was’ over 10 years ago and what I was like and what I was ‘up to’ ... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

521. The Invaluable Benefits of Self-Writing

Or how journaling and blogging have saved myself from my selective-memory deciding ‘who I was’ at a point in my life and instead, look back and see the reality of myself in my own words. I was quite amazed last night when reading some older readings in my personal journal and ... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

520. Self-Accountability and Tough Love

Or understanding and realizing the necessary nature of applying ‘tough love’ in order to honor our own lives and that of others in the name of what’s best for all. Many times while being in relationships we lose track of our personal self-agreement and where we stand in person... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

519. From Fear of Speaking up to Doing So

Or how to realize that those things that we fear the most and prevent doing in our lives hold a key to our self-honesty and self-creation One of the things that I feared doing was speaking up to people that I had been in a relationship with and I feared doing it because of fe... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

518. Learning To Listen

Yesterday there was a very cool discussion that opened up in a group chat about communication and what happens when one shares a bit ‘too much’ from the get go with a person as in talking too much in a little amount of time, as well as not listening to our interlocutor, result... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

517. Mirroring Judgments

Or self-forgiving the judgments that I have believe ‘others create’ towards me and discover: it’s always been me. I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to procrastinate getting to write about the subject of ‘what will others say’ because of considering tha... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

516. What Will Others Say?

Or debunking our own ‘after thoughts’ that we believe others hold against us and discovering, it’s all created by me. I’ll start by sharing that I regularly write notes about things that come up within me during the day (written on the back of sales-tickets, to use that whole... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

515. Remembering The Process

Or understanding the dedication of self-change and actively working on creating and living to our utmost potential Many times we want to create an experience of self-acceptance, self-trust, self-confidence, having a sense of security, being fearless and being stable enough to... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

514. Debunking My Intellectual Arrogance

Or learning to apply the principle of ‘Investigate all things and keep what’s best’ and create a constructive outcome of a personal investigation Today I woke up and listened to some more information that I’ve been following through for some months that essentially debunk and ... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

513. How to Live the Word Control?

Or exploring the negative aspects of control in order to see the supportive potential that this word contains as well for my life The first association that comes to this word is definitely ‘control-freak’ which is one of the things I’ve shared about throughout these blogs as ... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

512. Process Works!

Or realizing the ways in which we can genuinely change and face challenging times in our lives with grace and self respect Lately I have been surprising myself in the possible ways to face what would usually be a rather uncomfortable, depressing, difficult and generally ‘shitt... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com

511. Taming Emotions

Or what I observed about myself in a recent dream and how it relates to our possibility stand up in worst case scenarios I had an interesting dream a few days ago that I find relevant to share because it speaks about my own relationship to emotions and specially fears that wer... —marlenvargasdelrazo.wordpress.com